Continued Feb 25th post More visitation issues

Don told the kids and me after the kids decided they didnt want to go out to his house for visitation thursday Feb. 24th that I should prepare that he was no longer going to be taking the kids to school on Thursday and Fridays because they would not come out and visit. he was no longer going to help them or me until they could go visit him. I told Don that it didn't matter to me, that it doesn't hurt me by him not taking them to school because i can take them every morning, but that he was hurting the kids by denying them an opportunity to spend time with their dad 2 mornings a week. He tries so hard to hurt me but doesnt realize that he hurts the kids in the process. How do you think it makes the kids feel that their dad doesnt want to help them or see them 2 extra days a week? I know if i was in their shoes i would hurt because even as their mother I hurt for them. Everytime he hurts them, he does hurt me because my heart goes out to them as I feel their pain. They are such special kids and I love them so much. I Thank God everyday for giving me a chance to be with my kids, to be able to spend as much time with them as possible. I have offered Don so much extra time with the kids even opening up my home, (even though I dont want him at my house or around me), so that he can stop by any extra time he has to spend some extra time with the kids, especially if they decide they dont want to go to his house for one night, but he proves over and over again that he doesnt want any extra time with them. He complains if I ask if he can watch the kids or stop by and check on Andrew or Katelyn if they happen to be sick saying it's not his weekend. I want things to be different, I want the kids to be able to go out to their dads any day of the week or weekend instead of just having one set night. I want Don to want that too if we continue to live in Kansas. If they dont want to go on Thursday, I want Don to respect that and say to his kids "OK lets do something tomorrow night or the next night or next night whatever works" He is welcome to take the kids whenever he wants to even if its not his weekend or weekday. I have told him that he is welcome to take the kids any day of the week, anytime as long as we dont have plans.