More visitation issues

Friday Feb 25 2011
Don shows up at 615 to pick the kids up for his weekend. both the kids go out to his car to talk to him and to let him know they don't want to go with him. It was taking a long time so i finally went outside to see what was going on. Don was badgering them and yelling at them about going with him. They both repeatedly said they didn't want to go. Again, Katelyn hasn't been to her dads house for a weekend in years. To stop the yelling and arguing back and forth, I told the kids that if they were going with me (as i had to leave), then they needed to get in the car. After another few choice words by don he then said i will be by tomorow to pick you guys up. Saturday between 3 and 6 pm. they were both home at the time he came by around 315. I wasn't home, as i was working. He brought the Salina PD with them. I wasn't here to hear what was said or done but all i know is kodi said that don told the kids that if they didnt go with him i was going to jail. kodi came by my work to tell me that. Andrew went with him but katelyn still wouldnt go. So i told don by scaring the kids into going with him was not the answer to the problem that it was only going to make the situation worse. That he needed to grow up and find a different way to deal with this issue. you know we shouldn't have to wait at the house for 3 hours for him to show up to pick the kids up in the first place but we did. I made sure the kids were to stay home until dad showed up to pick them up. I went above and beyond what i need to do to make sure the kids are home at pickup time. So andrew goes with him and he continually tells me that i need to force the kids to go with him but then when he takes Andrew to his house for his weekend visit which this weekend began at 3 pm on Saturday, he brings andrew home at 230pm on Sunday afternoon instead of keeping him until 6. So i am supposed to force them to go with him when he can't even force them to stay when they are with him??? If Don wont even keep them for the entire time he is supposed to have the kids, how am i supposed to force them to go with him in the first place?? It doesnt make any sense to me. Don continues to take Andrew on Friday night and brings him home first thing Saturday morning while he works, then doesn't show up to pick them back up until 7 pm Saturday night when he gets off work by or before 6pm. there is no winning with don. it's always his way or no way and it's always all my fault. but after what he told katelyn 2 years ago almost the exact words as he said thursday night when he told katelyn and this was said in court that is she wouldn't come out and see him he was never gonna do anything for her again. He has kept his word on that. he has never helped her since then and doesn't even get her a birthday card for her birthday. It's crazy how i predicted all this in court and all of it has happened just like i said it would. He showed up Friday morning to take the kids to school but only because Andrew continually asked him if he was going to but didnt even give andrew an answer to that question until friday morning. Well i gotta get some sleep will catch up more later. Goodnight